Modern Loss is a place to share the unspeakably taboo, unbelievably hilarious, and unexpectedly beautiful terrain of navigating your life after a death. Beginners welcome. This project grew out of two friends’ separate experiences with sudden loss, and their struggle to find resources that weren’t too clinical, overtly religious, patronizing or, frankly, cheesy. Stay tuned for upcoming Modern Loss events in real life. Because misery loves company, and nachos. And margaritas. What you will get here: • Essays from those who have experienced all kinds of loss • Resources—from probating a will to respectfully getting your loved one #off social media • Creative ideas for exploring your own loss • Links to relevant articles about thriving in the face of grief • News about projects we think you’ll love • Ways to connect with other people who just “get” it What you won’t get here: • Judgment • Tips to help you “get over” or “get past” it • Anything associated with the idea of a “valid” loss. If you feel it, it’s real • The phrase “Everything happens for a reason.” Just … no